I'm in a strange situation with religion myself, being that I don't really know for sure what my stance is. I was raised as a Roman Catholic, and those teachings are what I believed for most of my life. But like many have said already, I began questioning those beliefs somewhat recently. Perhaps it's not the beliefs themselves I questioned, but rather the Church itself. I found myself more and more frustrated with the decisions people of authority in the Church were making, and the limited way in which they view the world. They make decrees about things that are not mentioned whatsoever in the Bible and that they have no personal experience in whatsoever. It comes down to them making semi-educated guesses based around their own opinion and what little of the topic is mentioned in the Bible. The followers of the Church take their word as law, as these men are supposedly inspired by God. Personally, I find it hard to believe that many of these men are indeed inspired by God, simply based on their words and actions. As such, my stance is difficult to decide. I want to point out something that Hilda said earlier in the thread, as I found it to be an interesting statement that contradicts my own belief on the matter.
The last few words of this statement are what really caught my attention, as they are the exact opposite of what I currently believe, and what I have always believed. I doubt that Hilda still feels this way now, but it is a point I want to address to those who may have had a similar thought.
I have always thought that having strong belief in a religion is the MOST rational thing any human can do in life. Period. Many people consider religion to be a waste of time, and an easy way to ruin whatever fun you may have in your life. The people who think this way are generally atheists. But l believe that it is always better to assume a God exists and live your life accordingly.
Assume atheists are correct, and there is no God or gods. Hurray for them. They lived a happy life, completely free of any religious "restrictions." But at the same time, while people of faith might be disappointed in the end, they will have no time to be disappointed, as they died too. They also lived equally happy lives. Sure, they went to church every week, and lost an hour of their lives. Maybe they lost more time from prayer, depending on the strength of their faith. But to assume those people weren't also happy is completely wrong. The majority of the people who believe in religion are happy to do so, and their lives are scarcely different from the majority of those who don't. We are equally happy.
Now assume atheists are incorrect, and for the sake of this example, assume that a christian religion was the true religion. Now those who were atheist and rejected religion will be tested by God, while those who believed have eternal life and happiness. This is a point I cannot stress more. Those who believe in religion have two options, to generalize: A happy life with no afterlife, or a happy life with an eternal afterlife. Likewise, the atheists have two options: Live a happy life with no afterlife - at best, slightly happier than those who believed in religion; or, face the judgment of whatever god or gods may have been true in the end.
This brings up my main point: Even if you choose the wrong religion and are still subject to the whims of whatever God may have been correct, is it not better to have the chance? If you can believe in a faith and be happy anyway, almost all of your options are good ones, regardless of the outcome. I'm presenting this in a purely rational way, as that's the way I feel most atheists will best understand it, though there are many alternative reasons that people join a faith. The hard part is actually believing, and that is the part that I'm still struggling with. I know that the rational choice is to believe in a religion, but I also recognize that simply being concerned for my own salvation isn't enough. I currently believe (or hope, to be more accurate) that if God exists, I can reach salvation by being a kind and good person while doing my best to believe. That's the most I can hope for right now, and I guess this post describes my current stance and thoughts on religion.