I'm asexual. This means that I do not physically react to anyone or anything in a way that would suggest sexual attraction. I am demiromantic, meaning that I do not get into a romantic relationship unless I know someone well enough; aka I don't date or go through anything like the dating ritual. I do not believe in marriage; I believe that if you're going to be with someone forever, you're going to be with them forever regardless of a ring or a vow (actions, not words).
I can still have intercourse and prefer women and shemales, sometimes hermaphrodites and sometimes traps (which are very different from cross-dressers, as cross-dressers only wear the clothing that their sex is "not supposed" to wear [according to sexist and genderist peoples] whereas traps claim themselves to be the sex that they are not without claiming to be any kind of trans...and as such generate a unique sense of self which influences others' perceptions of them in unique ways), the latter being due to psychological reasons which manifest very interestingly during intercourse.
I don't subscribe to masculinity or femininity, although I am proud to be female. This means that while I am proud to acknowledge my sex, I don't care about gender, or atleast gender on a binary scale. I'm a second-wave feminist, meaning that I believe that women should find out who they are as individuals before worrying about who they are as women and before worrying about their femininity.
The reason I don't subscribe to binary concepts of gender is that I have found them to be incorrect. Masculine traits are easily done by females and feminine traits are easily done by males; similarly, masculine and feminine traits now interweave in first world 21st century cultures. I believe that I do have a gender; I simply believe that said gender has not been formulated yet as it is part of a different gender system than the binary system.
Above all else, I am an individualist. I care more about who a person is in their own way than about labels. Labels create collectives; collectives are ruled by a hive mind; hive minds are dangerous to the person and that person's self. That is my philosophy. I don't do cults; I'm not patriotic; I refuse to respect someone unless they've earned my respect; I refuse to follow someone just because I'm told to; and I definitely am not part of the crowd. This is part of why I am a Westernist rather than an Easternist: I cannot stand discriminatory, collective societies as are rampant in and near Asia.