Wolfox

I think I wrote it wrong. they would say "Maybe" to my question and would follow up by saying that they would let me know later. granted I still suck at social stuff so maybe they meant that they would maybe let me know later, yet I'm assuming the other one cuz even I am not that dense

youre probably not wrong. still, what huk said kinda holds water. it could have come over as a promise to you, but maybe the other person didnt really see it that way. or maybe promises like that just dont mean much to them overall.

alternatively they may actually get back to it later. who knows?

l was fully aware of what you meant. That doesn't change what l say. They don't owe you that it's not commitial. Later, is an unspiecfied amount of time it's not binding.

Even still pressuring them for that info might have been the reason they said "later" to make one stop asking. Cause those questions aren't always super easily answered on the spot. Some people might not be ready for such and it may catch them off guard etc etc... and pressing it will cause them to go into their shell. l'm not insitating anything here but you have to remember that there's 2 people in this equation. There's another human being with feelings and emotions in the same situation and you don't know what going on in their head.

Maybe they aren't ready for a relationship at that time in their life and don't want to close a door outright. Maybe they are nervous in such sitiuations and just want it to pass without conflict... Maybe they just want time to mull it over. Or many countless numerous things.

Whatever the case, an answer is not owed. They are not required to give one. Even if you may find that unfair... it's the truth.