so uh yeah

[Chevaleresse]

In case my status didn't make it clear, I guess I'm coming out as pansexual now? Strange, doesn't feel like the big deal I was making it.

Still haven't done it irl, though. That'll be something I'll hold off on for a while, at least with my family.

[Arkhi]

Baby steps. Though, even straight guys can look at others and say they're cute. A congratulations would be standoffish, so...
Take care.

[Cowtao]

Lucky for me, I am standoffish with my pompous post.

Congratulations on being Pansexual. You now have a love and lust for everything! owo

[Deleted User]

Baby steps. Though, even straight guys can look at others and say they're cute. A congratulations would be standoffish, so...

Take care.

I don't know if we'd (I'm assuming) use that word per se, but yeah. Gotta respect a dude who puts in an effort in the aesthetic department.

[Neo]

I don't know if we'd (I'm assuming) use that word per se, but yeah. Gotta respect a dude who puts in an effort in the aesthetic department.

Nah. I'm always like "I'd lowkey suck him up"

Anyway.....

I guess gratz on to terms with your sexuality homie.

[Deleted User]

Nah. I'm always like "I'd lowkey suck him up"

Bro, I swear if I said the sky was blue, you'd be like "Nah it's cyan homie..... Swag." lol

[Lord Bagel]

I wish you luck Irl bro, It takes some real balls to come to terms with a huge decision like this in a have nothing but props for you.

[Cowtao]

I'm sorry.

I didn't delete them but those pan pictures were just too good.

[Chevaleresse]

I got a kick out of them, dw.

[Arkhi]

Well, Cow's got me convinced. Congratulations.

Now, you've a need to make a plan to tell people you've known for the longest time that they don't really know your true sexuality... That could be tricky. Unless you just up and say it.

[Guest]

lol makes me remember the awkward situations with people here who thought i was straight, i just put my sexuality into my about me page for convenience after those xD

It's really special that everyone here in reborn is so open-minded, makes you wonder why some people are so conflicting in the first place.

Cheers for you mate! Hope everything goes well if you do decide to open up in rl, i'm kinda still steeling my courage to do it, my brother will kill me x_x"

[HolyKnight]

You have balls of steel, son.

Be whatever you want to be and if others doesn´t like that, just don´t give a flying fuck about it. The ones who love you, they´ll love you the way you are and not of the things you like.

[Neo]

Bro, I swear if I said the sky was blue, you'd be like "Nah it's cyan homie..... Swag." lol

If it's Cyan then it's fuckin' cyan don't play.

[Shanco]

Hey man, you are you. Kudos to you for coming out, but your sexuality is you. And if people don't like you or don't like the fact that you have an interest in more than just women, to hell with 'em.

And if you need to talk to one of us about it, feel free to talk to me or one of us Aces or whichever. It's always better to get concerns off your chest.

[Jan]

Kudos on coming out dude. I don't really bring it up because it doesn't really matter, but I'm not exactly straight either, lmao. I'm Bi, so I know how awkward some situations can be . If you ever need to talk to anyone, I'm here.

[Zephyrus the Priestess]

Good on ya for having guts, mate. You'll get there irl too-- but don't rush it if you don't want to.

[Tacos]

Looks like I'm a little late to the party. But congrats on coming to terms and being open about your sexuality.

[Felicity]

Cool. Go out and fuck, and make your overly straight friends uncomfortable.

Also, whilst it's not completely relevant:

[Ojama Yellow]

Welp, you are who you are, there's no changing that. I wouldn't know what kind of person I would be to think less of you now. Even more, you came out for it, which isn't exactly the easiest thing to do. At least I think so.

[Raindrop Valkyrie]

Glad you have found that clarity. Good luck to you man. You know more about that in yourself than I do. Then again, love isn't something I am interested in right now, so I am not worrying about it.

[Bluewolf]

I can be a very envious person. And when I am I usually envy a trait of someone that I find simply amazing and that I lack in myself. And that in you, sir, is bravery. I ain't no big risk taker. I just want you to know that you've got something I wish, and many others wish they had and for that applaud you.

Edited October 1, 2014 by Bluewolf

[chuckles]

Perhaps this is the wrong approach to take, but honestly....I don't understand most of these reactions. If somebody's not straight, I don't go "oh...you're one of those people" or "congratulations on coming to terms with it"...

This is one of those things that is a part of who a person is and...it just shouldn't make a difference in any regard besides romantic interest.

I truly hope that nobody looks at you differently for this because it shuoldn't matter if somebody's straight or gay or pansexual. I think someday we will reach a point where people won't think to say something like that, they'll just pursue whoever they want to romantically and/or sexually, and nobody will bat an eye. If you're attracted to a person regardless of biology, that's fine. If you're only attracted to people born with certain biological traits, that's fine too. I suppose I treat this with the same regard I treat race.....everything is fine and it doesn't affect the way I see anybody.

Please note, i'm not being negative here, I just don't really understand why everybody else seems to look at this as some sort of revelation, when to me, any sexual preference, regardless of what it is, should be as generally relevant as preferences with food. However, admittedly, I am unrealistically idealistic.

Edited October 4, 2014 by chuckles