Wolfox

I'll try to look into why I sometimes feel that way. maybe it's just the confident person in my trying to get me to ask them to tone it down a bit but me not being able to muster it because I always try to be as little of a disturbance as possible. I don't mind if people want to help me with anything, it's just that I always had issues asking for help. Something in my mind just tells me that if I rely on help too much I will never be able to stand on my own two legs (not a good mentality, I know. not many easy or quick ways to get rid of it tho). So, if nothing else thanks for wanting to help.

lt's no biggie, sometimes we need help. Society does often decide that "Help is for the weak" but it's simply... untrue. At times having another persepctive, or someone to just talk at is a good thing. Never be ashamed to ask for help, because someone teaching you, helping you forward, is certainly a way to better one's self faster~ And, when you've leanred that is alesson you have and can pass on to others who may ask you.
 

Keep this in mind. And it gonna sound cliche and whatever but it's something that needs be said. A relationship... it's about 2 people. Not 1. 2. More or less, you're gonna have to work with someone and rely on someone if a romantic relationship is something you do desire in the future. lt's how they work.~ So, it's a good skill to be learning now rather than in the moment with your significant other when said time comes. Be open to relying on people sometimes, it's not a weakness and it doesn't make you a weaker person. lt makes you a stronger one. Drawing upon the bonds of friendship etc etc isn't a trope in media for no reason. The Power of Friendship etc... Companionship, whether of a plutonic or a romantic sense... is a strong and powerful force. People can help us with our shortcomings and see things we miss. You get the picture.

Now, l don't wanna get... too preachy or anything so l'll cut off here. But always feel free to just ask me stuff or just hit up my inbox ((here or Discord l suppose, best places to reach me really.)) and blow it the feck up with messages about something that's on your mind if you can't parse it on your own. l don't mind just listening and helpin' folks sort through things. ~~l'm not much of an advice person... but one can ask if it's what they desire, l'm just not a huge fan of it myself cause lt's an imprfect thing but l'm going on a tangent now... LOL~~ 

I hope I'll use your offer at some point. not hoping it will be needed of course, but that if it is I will actually use it.