Wolfox

it does kinda feel mandatory. most of my best friends and family are in a happy relationship and what's there for me? nothing. also, I'm looking extra hard to an extent because right now I have nothing keeping me sane. no school, no job, no nothing. having someone with me with whom I can share things I wouldn't with others and who would be by my side every bump in the way would make this situation a lot easier to deal with and frankly, not as painful. and note that this guy here likes to talk about your feelings and how your day was (even if he's not great at it) while he can't find anyone, while others brag about how many times they fucked up a relationship, or even more guys just listen to their genitals instead of caring about their lady.

dont compare yourself to your best friends or family, especially on relationship levels. they may have gotten lucky, you a tad less so.

looking actively for relationships may not be as effective as you reckon it is. it may end up with you judging your feelings too quickly, or rushing too much, or something.

sharing things could be possible with friends. not necessarily irl friends for that matter, could be onlines too. course, it wont be exactly fully the same- the kind of consolation they give you is different. but theyre there for you nonetheless.

also please dont compare your relationship life to the one of...those guys. bad relationships. bad time.

if I actually compare my luck to others, well let's just say that that will only lead to me screaming "What did I do to deserve such bad luck!" since every time I need even a little luck, nothing at all.

as for looking actively, if I don't look, how will I find someone?

for the sharing, there are things you share with most everyone, there are things you share with close to no one, and there are things you share with only one person, and guess which of these I should share more?

As for that last comparison, that was simply me showing my frustration that people who just wanna get laid for some reason find someone sooner than people who actually care about others :/