Ima write a big post in a moment, but lemme just start by saying I think you're way overthinking this
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA *Wipes tear from eyes* No, not in the slightest. That type of romance is idealized so that the majority of the audience will feel good about themselves
Nope, heroism is imagined and the rare case where someone does fall for their savior it tends to work out badly
You make a big mistake and miss a key word here
Firstly, "perfect girl" is very subjective and by using any woman as a standard you're literally saying that any woman who isn't her is therefore imperfect, which immediately sets you up for failure in romance. Though I do get your point because Pyrrha is a wonderful young woman and Jaune is lucky to have her heart
And the key word here is appears. No he's not crazy powerful or super smart. But he's a good person, if a bit reckless and in over his head. It's clear that Pyrrha sees beyond his social awkwardness into who he really is (also helps that's she super awkward herself and thus kinda understands)
No you don't get to be the hero
And no you don't get to snuggle with your perfect lover, because nobody exists who is your perfect lover (as in, in your head what you think of as perfect, I'm sure there's someone just right for you out there. I'm just trying to make a psychological point about how your current way of thinking is flawed) As I already sorta said, the very idea of perfection itself is imperfect
Yes they are illusions, but so are the bad boys that steal their hearts. Yes some girls are more interested in that sort of guy, but that doesn't mean they all are. And it definitely doesn't mean you have to be some storybook hero to get a girl
Well, seeing as I am the Goddess of Luck and have the most amazing, perfectly imperfect girl on the planet as my heart I think I'm qualified to comment here
Well, for one, it's not necessarily something you seek out. The harder you look, the less likely you are to find (like when you lose the TV remote or your car keys, it's only after you stop searching that they show up) That's not to say you should just ignore every girl you like ever, because then you'll end up missing the right one. But take a step back and let it happen, instead of trying to find some shortcut to making it work
Basically, you're trying to hard, ease up a bit. Instead of trying to be the hero, just focus on being a good person. Someone's bound to take notice. It's not likely to happen any time soon, but love is a game of patience. I'd wager you're probably still under 20 so you've got plenty of time
Life isn't a fairy tale but don't lose heart, I mean how are you supposed to love someone without it?
With hope,
Lexi