I don't have any problems myself at home , (then wy are you posting here) to help/advise people
But for every one who has it hard try to talk with your parents at the right time or see what bothers them,
If you don't have any or many friend just look for people with same interests or topics and join in,
When your parents are divorced know that nothing is your fault and let them remember the good parts or just stay out of it,
At last for you hutch, i dont say you should do this but try to find out if your aunt has any dirts on her to keep her of your mums back or hook her up with a man to get her out.