That when you try PM the people on your friends forum list and only one out of the whole list has posted recently.
Followed by that feel when it's the person you think you'll get along with best. And your single. And gay. And he's your age even though you won't start of like that and it's best to try to keep it down but fuck it, there's a chance so it's worth bringing up, and friends are good too is it's good either way.