Ok, so I'm just going to speak my mind once again. To preface this, I read the OP horribly wrong and jumped to the conclusion that this was a post about Hilda coming out as transgender and based my reaction solely upon that. Now that I realize, I'm pitching in my own thoughts.
Everyone tells a little white lie. It's human nature. We are people, we are flawed. I myself, am a pathological liar. I see things turning bad for me, and I build up a wall of lies as a shelter and spend my time inside finding a way to escape without harming myself or those around me. Lies will happen, and I understand that. But there are things that are just unacceptable, and I find this to be an example. The alias I can understand. This is the internet, you can't trust everyone on who they say they are. But this is the equivalent of a catfish. Using pictures of someone else and portraying them to be you, regardless of your affiliation, is unacceptable. As I said, this is the internet, you have no clue how much danger you're putting them in by exposing them to places they wouldn't on their own. You have no clue who lies behind the screen, and you better hope there's not some sicko behind the screen here who's ready to pounce on that poor girl.
And to forge relationships with so many people here under the alias of that girl? To involve yourself in a loving relationship, that I have to believe was one-sided, under this alias is despicable. I find it hard to believe that you had any feelings for Ame if you pursued her under this alias. How long were you expecting to keep this up? Until you two eventually broke up for other reasons? Until you two were to meet face to face? You knew you were getting yourself in too deep, and yet you dug your hole deeper. You took those bonds you formed, hooked them deeper under peoples' skin, and then tore them out when the facade was compromised. I hope you at least considered the possibility of abandoning the alias, or abandoning these people for the better of both sides, because the only way this could have been worse would have been for you to continue on. There was no way to escape this without pain, and I think the moment you began to create a bond with any one person here, you knew it.
Now, I never was too close with you. Our relationship was strictly one of co-workers when I was an auth. I tried to cooperate politely as I would with anyone else who was staff, even if it did feel like that polite cooperation wasn't reciprocated. I never made a bond with you like I have others in Reborn, so my forgiveness will come easier than others. I don't condone your actions, but I am always willing to give second chances. But those second chances are to be earned.
I imagine trust like a Jenga tower. You take a block from the bottom with each lie you tell, and each bond your form under this lie, and place it on top to make it taller, to better yourself. But with each lie, the tower becomes less structurally sound, until it eventually topples, and you're forced to build it back from the bottom. And I'm aware my opinion is less valuable now that I no longer have my title, but I believe you should be starting back from the bottom. In my opinion, lost trust is not significant enough of a punishment. Each time this tower topples, it gets more tedious to rebuild. So I hope this is the last big lie we'll hear from you, because I don't give out third chances in most circumstances.