I decided to wait until I've slept on all this before responding, since if I would have said something last night I probably would have regretted it. However, now that I've slept I think I'm ready to reply.
Hilda and I didn't always see eye to eye, and I don't see that changing with you Hunter, since it seems apparent that personality-wise you two were pretty much the same person. I don't even need you to admit that like you seemed to a few times, just the way you type and word things tells me enough to know that. That's fine honestly. I want people in this community who don't see eye to eye with me. It's what inspires growth and change. That's why I'm neutral towards you keeping auth or not. It's something that should be decided between the auth themselves, and is not a thing for everyone else to decide.
Being male or female doesn't effect my opinion of you very much at all honestly.
What had me absolutely livid though is the fact that you hurt people that I care a lot about; that I love. I had a talk with you when I found out Hilda and Ame were together, and I meant it. I can't forgive someone who hurts Ame, even if she acts like she's doing alright. The fact of the matter is that this whole charade went on for way too long and cut in way too deep. That being said I agree that you can still redeem yourself just not completely, not to me. I can still be civil around you, and I'll still treat you like I would anyone else but there'll always be a part of me that remembers the pain you've caused to the people Hilda grew close to.
Do you deserve the slander some people are giving you? Probably not. Do you deserve the praise people are giving you for something they call brave? Probably not. Do you deserve a chance to rebuild? I think everyone deserves a chance, regardless of what I feel about them or what they've done.