Hey Judy, welcome to the forums.
Lets kick this off with how to get questions you may have answered. On good way is to make a topic about it, there are plenty of people here who want to help you. Another is to fire off a PM to me, Hilda, Vinny, or a guy called Sightless Avenger, we know lots of stuff, some of it's even useful, and you can bet we'll get you your answer. Finally, you can always just go on the reborn server, found on pokemon online, and throw it out into the main chat, depends on who's there as to what answer you'll get.
Speaking of the server, go check out the server. Faust and Mik have both already told you to do that, but it is a huge part of our community, so I'm telling you anyway.
If you're into competitive battling then you can also take a look at the Hall of Champions sub forum here. We host weekly theme tournaments, as well as a competition called pokenations. Nations is basically about getting sorted into a team, then playing off against a different team each week with certain restrictions. If you decide to sign up for it though, please stay active as we've had plenty of issues with inactivity already.
If you're at all interested in roleplaying, or just reading a good story, go check out the roleplaying sub forum. Hukuna's the guy to talk to about how to participate, and everyone over there is super friendly.
Finally, if you come across any bugs or glitches in your travels through the reborn region, we do have a sub forum for reporting those too, aptly named bug reporting. Every unknown bug that's reported helps improve the game, and at the end of the day I'm sure we all want it to be in the best shape possible. So yeah, it's really appreciated. If you encounter a game breaking bug that causes the game to become unplayable you can go to the troubleshooting section and post your save file, so that one of our very capable helpers can get you out of there.
Oh, and if you don't mind do make sure you have a quick read of this if you haven't already: http://www.pokemonreborn.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=6807&page=1
That should be enough to orient you. Have fun.
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