I knew what you meant.
So, I was hoping to broach this topic gently, but I guess that ship has sailed. I don't know whether it's just unfortunate choice of words, or a result of too many bad personal experiences, but you do come off rather bitter in your first post, Nightzer. You asked whether you need to change, and the answer is "yes". If nothing else, at least self-reflect on your interactions and truly consider if your tastes really are the problem. Archeric might have been a bit blunt, but he's not wrong; you'd have to be awfully unlucky if the only people around you are as shallow as you claim.