Meem Qween
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Doesn't it suck when you begin to think and/or realize that your parents seem to favor your younger sister's decision instead of yours?
Two days ago after PoGo legendary raid hunting;
*two hours after leaving house and making plans on what to do and where to go*
Mom: OK. Now to Cheddar's for food?
Dad: Yup
Sis: I don't want Cheddar's!
Dad: Then what do you want?
Sis: That pizza place that I like!
Mom: Alright.
*We didn't go to Cheddar's, which is what we've been looking forward to for two hours. We instead follow little sister's lead and go for pizza.*
With me, with anything I want, be it going to restaurants or getting food from store;
Me: Can I have this?
Parents: How much money do you have in your (NON EXISTENT) pockets?
Me: None...
Parents: Then you can't have it.
Sis: Can I have this?
Parents: Sure.
*This is what happens every single time I ask for something. I do get the rare "Yes" sometimes, but most of the time they say no. My parents, my mom especially, know that as a teenage girl, most pants I can get usually have no pockets, fake pockets, or tiny, useless pockets, so I leave most of my stuff either at home or in the car.*
So yeah... my depression showing up at the worst possible times makes this seem a whole lot worse that it probably is...
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As others have Ninja'd, just talk to your parents about it. I know how annoying living with a younger sister can be (Exact same age gap as well. so if you gotta let off some steam about it, or anything else, my PM box is open
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I know how hard it can be to talk about these things with your parents, even harder than for most people in my case, but if it really bothers you you gotta tell them about those things.
Also, I will agree that it's not fair, but sometimes a balance is hard to find, or even to notice the things you do "wrong". The hardest part is admitting that and saying sorry for it, however.
Long story short: Just tell them how you feel. Worst case scenario: they deny it but do start thinking about it.
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