Bearadactyl

So, how do you respond to... Learning of just how abusive your genetic father was to your family when you were too young to remember? Like... Apparently my father did everything from holding a gun to my mother, to beating my brother relentlessly, amongst other things. I mean, I have always had issues with my dad... But, learning the extent of the things he actually did is just... I don't know how to respond or feel about it.