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Someone talk to me. I need advice on how to approach someone who is trying to control my friend.
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Sometimes you have to be aggressive with these situations.
Even if you would rather not have an explosive outcome, it's an unfortunate given in some cases.
Don't budge, remain a friend, and let the person controlling know you're not going anywhere.
If your friend chooses them over you, then, they weren't a good friend to begin with.
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^^this.
in this type of situation, you gotta buck up and take the bull by the horns in order to stick up for ya buddy. Because real friends aren't afraid to raise some hell if they need to in order to prevent another friend from being used by someone.
And like LoB said, if they choose the manipulator over you, the very person trying to stick up for them... then yeah, they obviously weren't worth calling a friend then if they can't even recognize you were on...