A bit late to the party, but better late than never. I figured this is probably still relevant to you. First I would like to say that you are who you are. Bettering yourself is great, but that's different than changing who you are. For example, I was always a pretty nice guy but I had horrible table manners. I fixed that, so I bettered myself, effectively becoming less "annoying". As long as you don't change who you are, bettering yourself is fine. But don't be fake or lie to yourself. Some would say that being a cosplayer is weird or unacceptable, but I rock my cosplays without regard for what others think. I don't know you, but here's what I can tell you by how you type: Now, I don't know how old you are. Judging from the way you type I would assume you're somewhere in high school or late middle school. The way someone types tells a lot about their personality. If you type eloquently, you will come off as knowing what you're talking about or being a condescending jerk. I have troubles with that myself sometimes. By the same token though, if you type without any regard for proper punctuation (forget grammar) people will see you as lazy or annoying. Or in this case young. Another thing; don't use this "...". Adding three periods after your sentences is often hard to look at. One thing you should consider is saying a lot with as few words as possible. Again, something I'm not that good at, but it's a glorious skill. Important: We all have opinions. I could have stated my opinion in many occasions that would have made someone felt uncomfortable or mad. I didn't because I knew that my opinion would not have been welcomed. Don't always tell people how you feel. If it's really important, then do it, but otherwise don't do it. I remember this one time in middle school back in the stone ages when my friend kept pestering me about how God doesn't exist. I was pretty religious at the time, and I didn't want to hear it. He obnoxiously fired his opinions at me until one day I hit him over the head with a metal pencil sharpener and called it a day. Don't be the guy who gets hit over the head with metal pencil sharpeners. You can't make everyone happy. Remember that. But you don't need to make everyone happy. Just those who matter. Who matters? Only you can say.
