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  1. On 11/19/2018 at 8:56 PM, Candy said:

    First and foremost, I'm very sorry to know your pain. There's never an easy way around relationships, but I do commend you for giving it a shot. Must have taken a lot of courage to do it, and I'm talking from experience because I wasn't brave enough hehe As for whether to keep her as a friend or not, I think it's more a question of mutual decision. I did turn down a guy once, because although I enjoyed time with him, I couldn't let go of... shall we say "past" for the edgy teens here 😉 Anyhow, when I turned him down, I told him that I'd gladly continue the friendship, and at first he agreed to it but it slowly faded to oblivion. We're only acquaintances now. So it'll all depend on whether you can reconcile yourself to leave hope of romance and become friends again, AND whether she can stop seeing you as the guy who is in love with her. Try talking to her, maybe? It might be awkward, but there's no other way... and if you can't agree on the friendship, then I'd say it's as you say. Let her be, and find enjoyment in being single again, even if it's difficult.

    I appreciate the advice, definitely taking it to heart. Its just so heart forcing yourself out of something when your so invested and all our hormones are just messing with your head. I guess theres no magic way to make all the pain go away either. I think im going to pay some attention to myself and try to do some self improvement as well, maybe if i keep talking to her ill have a chance way down the road, or even if not doesn't hurt. 

  2. First off I want to start off by saying I've never been in an relationship so I don't know what a breakup is like but I can imagine its 10 times worse. Still being rejected by a girl I really like has really gotten me down.

    As a guy i've never been much for finding a hook up or a girlfriend. I kinda enjoy the single of life because its really relaxing no drama and plenty of free time. I have know alot of attractive girls but I never go for them not because I'm shy but just because I dont feel the need to. For a long time i thought there was something wrong with me because when girls come to try to make out with me at parties I'd turn them down and I've never had feelings for anyone.

     

    Everything changed when I met this one girl. Shes not the most attractive girl so I didn't think much at first. As I started talking to her, her personality really started to shine. Shes the nicest, sweetest, most sincere, most hardworking and caring person I know. I truly believe that I'll never meet someone like her in my life again. I had and still have a huge crush on her. I really feel like im in love with her but I know thats probably just me being irrational. Shes always on my mind and its been like this for the past 5 months. I'm a sophomore in college and I've never felt like this in my life. Every time I see her smile its the most happy moment in my life but also the saddest because I know she will never be mine. I've been hitting on her and trying to show I'm interested for a long time. I knew she picked up on the hints and turned me down but I still had to just be honest with her to tell her how I feel. I got rejected pretty hard and so here I am.

     

    I can't stop spending time with her because of how much I like her but I also really think its healthier for me to forget about her. At the same time as much as I want to date her having a friend like her would be more than fine for me. I don't know what to do in this situation. Do I keep talking to her as a friend? Or should I try to cut her off (in which case I feel is unfair to her because we really vibe and she doesn't have alot of close friends I'm one of her few). I also don't know if i'm capable of cutting her off just because of how much I like her.

     

    Everything hurts, it feels like shes the only thing that matters in life. People say time melts the pain away but its been 2 months since the rejection and It hasn't gotten any better. I don't know what to do.

  3. 23 minutes ago, Valyrym said:

     

    I never input my real age or birthday on anything, I'm a super weenie and am scared of someone find me out irl.

    Haha i used to be like you when i was smaller, i know that feeling. But really that fear is unjustified you should relax a little more B) 

  4.  Sorry for so many requests lately, just trying to prepare for E17 lol

     

    Requested Pokemon : swinub

    Gender : Female

    Item: 

    Ability : doesn't matter

    Nature : lonely

    IV Spread : 6iv perfect

    With or without Pokerus : doesn't matter

    Shininess(Normal or Shiny) : normal

    With or without Egg Moves: yes

    Other Egg Moves(please specify) : freeze dry, icicle crash

     

    Requested Pokemon : machop (i screwed up my other breeding project :( )

    Gender : female

    Item :

    Ability : doesn't matter

    Nature : adamant

    IV Spread : 5iv x special attack 

    Pokerus : doesn't matter

    Shininess : no

    With or without Egg Moves: yes

    Egg Moves : heavy slam, bullet punch, close combat

     

    Offered Pokemon : Eevee

    Gender : Male

    Item: 

    Ability : run away

    Nature : timid

    IV Spread : 6iv perfect

    With or without Pokerus : no

    Shininess(Normal or Shiny) : no

    With or without Egg Moves: yes

    Other Egg Moves(please specify) : wish

     

    Offered Pokemon : Larvesta

    Gender : female

    Item :

    Ability : flame body

    Nature : timid

    IV Spread : 5iv x attack

    Pokerus : no

    Shininess : no

    Egg Moves : morning sun

     

    Online ID :  GeotheGeodude

  5. 14 minutes ago, Greninja said:

    Did you have a Pokemon w/ Pokerus and started a few battles alongside the one you want to infect (also try switching around the Mons)?

    yes, i spread pokerus before numerous times

  6. 12 minutes ago, Njab said:

    pokemon that have smiley faces on them can't spread the pokreus but they will still get effect of the pokerus

    I know, I mean't the pokemon that I suspect are unable to get pokerus dont have smilies or pokerus. The other ones in my party are currently infected and have the pokerus symbol

  7. Ok so for some reason pokerus doesn't spread to some pokemon for some reason. I checked and they don't have the smiley face showing the have been infected and ev values arn't doubled either. The reason I didn't put this in the bug section is I wasn't sure if its a bug or that I'm just being stupid and some pokemon just don't get pokerus or something (since i never got pokerus in the main games).

  8.  

    Requested Pokemon : Ferroseed

    Gender : Male

    Item: none

    Ability : doesn't matter

    Nature : relaxed

    IV Spread : 31/31/31/31/31/0

    With or without Pokerus : no

    Shininess(Normal or Shiny) : no

    With or without Egg Moves: yes

    Other Egg Moves(please specify) :leech seed, seed bomb

     

    Requested Pokemon : Machop

    Gender : Female

    Item: none

    Ability : doesn't matter

    Nature : adamant

    IV Spread : 5iv x special attack

    With or without Pokerus : no

    Shininess(Normal or Shiny) : no

    With or without Egg Moves: yes

    Other Egg Moves(please specify) : bullet punch, close combat

     

    Offered Pokemon : Pillowswine

    Gender : Male

    Item: none

    Ability : oblivious

    Nature : adamant

    IV Spread : 6iv perfect

    With or without Pokerus : no

    Shininess(Normal or Shiny) : no

    With or without Egg Moves: yes

    Other Egg Moves(please specify) : icicle crash

     

    Offered Pokemon : Slowpoke

    Gender : female

    Item: none

    Ability : oblivious

    Nature : bold

    IV Spread : 5iv x attack

    With or without Pokerus : no

    Shininess(Normal or Shiny) : no

    With or without Egg Moves: yes

    Other Egg Moves(please specify) : curse, mudsport

     

    Online ID : GeotheGeodude

     

    Thanks!

  9. Sorry to here that man. Just know theres probably a reason he stopped talking, and whatever it may be its all probably just a misunderstanding (since he seems like a cool guy and so do you). But like you said he moved on, and so should you. I'm gonna quote else here and say the past is in the past :) . Sorry for that joke just trying to lighten up the mood a little. Just don't dwell on it and move on, plenty more people you'll meet in your life i'm sure. And I do know where your coming from, I've gotten into fights and breakups all kinds of things. It really is rough but time will mend it. You probably shouldn't blame him too much either, although I'm sure his actions were completely unjustified I'm sure he had his reasons. Staying mad at him will only harm you. But all and all I hope you get better! Go out meet some new people, play some reborn haha do whatever. If you ever need someone to talk to I'm here just pm me. 

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