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  1. 1 hour ago, Sayaman said:

    Believe me, if someone doesnt like trans people he will find a million ways to say it or act on it. Calling the word a "slur", that to my knowledge at least, was never used as nothing more than a silly joke seems shallow to me.

    But see, here's two things: First, just because people can make up new ways of insulting us doesn't mean we should have to tolerate existing ones. Second, not everyone who uses slurs necessarily realizes the real implications of what they're saying. And that's where you step in and encourage them to think about it a little.


    Unfortunately words don't always keep their original meanings, and the fact of the matter is that this term can be and is used to insult trans people.
    The general public isn't anywhere close enough to a point of acceptance of trans people that we are safe from constantly being made the butt end of hurtful jokes. And comparing us to this particular trope is such a joke, and it's not very funny when so many trans women constantly face the very real fear of being accused of deception and trickery. (And no, not just by men, either, as is demonstrated by the existence of trans-exclusionary radical feminists, whose firm opinion is that trans women are men trying to infiltrate women's spaces.)
    It's cool if your experience so far has been that people manage to draw a respectful boundary and don't apply this word in ways it should not - I'm glad you seem to keep the right company. Unfortunately that experience is far from universal. (Read: God, I wish that were me.)

  2. 1 hour ago, ShadeStrider said:

    I was talking about words that we used as insults commonly, like the R-word before people started cracking down on it.

    There are plenty of words you can use as a substitute in any given situation you'd want to use the R-word for.
    Is your determination to use this specific word really more important than the feelings of people who have had this word used against them in a discriminatory manner?
    The r-word has a history of being used as a slur, that's the entire reason it came to be used as an insult. People began to use the r-word to insult others for much the same reason they use "gay" as an insult - it's in direct context to the group of people it is applied to. The insult is meant to be the comparison to those people.

    Just because the word has rooted itself so firmly in people's vocabulary that some of them don't realize how it originated doesn't mean it's suddenly no longer a slur. Not when it is still commonly used as a slur against the very same demographic.
    Words do oftentimes change meanings over time, but the r-word is still used in the exact same context that made it popular as an insult.

  3. 1 hour ago, jasmiinininja said:

     

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    tumblr_pkyodnmhEx1v6nrs4o2_500.jpg Mirage tower was fun to explore with bird boy I recommend

    tumblr_pkyodnmhEx1v6nrs4o3_500.jpg I had so much fun with him, all I wanted was him to grow up healthy and strong! 

     

     

    [My Heart Will Go On is playing gently in the background]

     

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    tumblr_pkyodnmhEx1v6nrs4o1_640.jpg But no! 

     

    [YOU ARE SAFE IN MY HEART AND MY HEART WILL GO ON rings loudly in your ear as Celine Dion bursts into your room]

     

    one true time you held him, i guess

  4. How the hell did I only see this thread now? Your art is gorgeous and I adore that Ciel drawing! The pose is amazing, and the light effects - wow! The way the light scatters looks so cool.

    (I also love Altaria's squishy cheeks~)

    The composition of the Amaria drawing is also very lovely.

     

    I see I've already been beaten to suggesting ZEL like, twice, but I'll just make it the third time then :] Their actual aces are technically their eevees, but y'know, I quite love the design of PULSE Magnezone...

  5. Hello, is that the police? Yes? Yeah I'm calling to ask if you can arrest this person. The art they posted looks so nice I'm sure they lifted it from a nearby museum?

     

    ...Jokes aside, hi there! That's some great art, I love it!

    It's not often that I see people drawing Corey, I really like the perspective and the scene in that piece. You did a great job with his expression, too!

     

    So, am I even gonna state the obvious?

    Of course I am. I adore it when people draw ZEL, and this is no exception~

    You've done them perfect justice ❤️

  6. This cactus in Sugiline Cave B1F can be walked over.
    I know the skulls that are "buried" in the edges of the dunes can be walked over as opposed to when they're on flat ground, but it does look quite silly to casually clip through a cactus.

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    the location ain't a spoiler, but my blessed girl here sure is

     

  7. 25 minutes ago, Sirius said:

    Methinks there should be follow up investigations where peeps reach out to users to investigate if sudden irl changes could be behind a rapid stack in WP. Very few peepos are just simple a**holes, or I'd like to think things aren't that cynical. Most falling outs, disagreements and upsets are as a result of misunderstandings, personal struggles etc, and I think that's a really underdiagnosed social epidemic.

    I half disagree. Just because someone has a reason for acting like a jerk doesn't mean it makes their actions towards others any more okay. A reason is not an excuse.

    I have a personality disorder that makes me emotionally unstable and often aggressive. Doesn't mean I get a lifetime pass on being a dick.

    If someone gets one warning point for disrespect/rudeness and it turns out they had a shitty day, sure, that's one thing, but when you get to someone "rapidly" earning themselves a "stack" then it's clearly no longer an exceptional, isolated incident. If someone is in such a bad mood that they repeatedly lash out against others and can't trust themselves to spend time here without acting up so much it gets them actual warning points (which often implies they ignored verbal warnings), then the solution is for them to take a break from here for a while and work through whatever is causing the issues.

    Auth can reach out to people to ask if everything's alright with them, but they have to work on changing their tune by themselves in the end.

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  8. Dunno whether to make an entirely new post or just point it out here, but I thiiink someone ought to put that Magnezone back in place on the old header & theme: It decided to start moving around rather than letting the background do so :')

    I mean, I'm all for freedom for all those poor PULSE mons, but we might have to make an exception for our pal up there.

     

    Other than that: I've been complaining about the "trivial" ace privileges for so long that it's honestly gonna be refreshing to finally be able to do the basic things. Thank you!~

     

    Oh, and have fun @ everyone with the episode, I guess :')

  9. 33 minutes ago, Mynxin said:

    I'm not sure if this is the place to ask, but it's certainly related to the topic at hand. Can a "When the next Episode coming out?" question be added to the FAQ. I remember that was the second place I went, the download page being the first, and it wasn't there. I just checked again now to make sure it hasn't yet been added, too. Honestly, it would save a lot of "When if Episode 17 coming out??" questions to put on the FAQ that nobody knows.

    It's covered under the FAQ for the game, which can be found in the "Pokemon Reborn" part of the menu right below the download link^^

    http://www.rebornevo.com/index.php?/pr/gamefaq/

    The first question answered is "When can I expect the next release?", which refers to episode releases of all kinds.

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    also, keep in mind that for people like you, who come on this forum every day, navigating is a breeze. you find everything you would ever want to find, because youre used to the layout, the structure and whatnot. people that just came on here may have never dealt with a forum like this before. they have literally not the slightest clue where to look for what, because theres so much info everywhere and its honestly really overwhelming. and please dont try to tell me that its easy to navigate this place, because even I had trouble to do so after the most recent site update, and that was after knowing this forum for a solid two years and a half. anyway, until they figure out how exactly this forum operates, they settle for the easiest way to find out whether e17 has been released yet- asking the veteran members.

    Quote machine broke sorry bibs please have a nice day

    But this is very much a thing. More so, I actually often give up on even using the search function and wade through the board index pages manually to find what I'm looking for, because often I find myself in the situation where I know something has been discussed before, but using the search won't give me the results that I know are out there. Maybe because the actual thread doesn't use the keyword I'm searching for despite being about that thing, or whatever.

    Some keywords are also so broad that you have to wade through a ton of unhelpful results, and not everyone's good at figuring out how to narrow it down.

     

    On another site I'm on, I often get people asking me to help them with finding stuff, because they've been looking for [type of thread] and can't seem to find it, or they're trying to find a thread they already saw before, but can't seem to find again - and from them using the wrong words in the search, to our search function sometimes breaking, to them not searching in the right board because the thread isn't where they expected it to be... there's lots of ways for things to get wrong even if a person actually does try to help themselves.

    The other week I've tossed a link to a thread that's been in use for seven years to a user who's been active for nine years. It happens.

     

    Some topics are certainly easier to search for than others, but personally I find this forum overall not the easiest to navigate for newcomers. Hell, I still find it annoying to use at times, and the unfortunate bugs that staff are still trying to fight with don't help.

     

    For a teensy bit of advice, if a question comes up a lot, something I have done elsewhere is to keep a copy-paste response that covers everything related to said question. Explanation, maybe a few useful links...

    Never done this for Reborn because I don't use the forums here often enough / don't usually go around trying to answer questions, but having a bunch of pre-written responses to common questions makes life easier for me elsewhere^^

     

    That said, I sign guilty as charged of using the "episode gets delayed" joke in recent history, so I guess this is also me saying I'll lay that to rest. Sorry!

  11. 2 minutes ago, NickCrash said:

    They became almost useless after the "Mess With Others" part of the site shop was removed, so too many people became Ace at the same time.

    Therefore they had to come up with a system that limits that. 

    Then the EXP one happened resulting in no new Ace members.

    The rupee system was removed because it wasn't compatible with the new site. It was no longer possible to use it at all, that's why it ultimately had to go.^^

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    The biggest difference between the new and old forums is going to be the complete removal of the $R system.

    That kind of sucks, but unfortunately there isn't a way around it. Our currency system is part of a third party mod which is completely incompatible with new forum versions. This is also the main reason that we haven't upgraded yet, but as it is now this forum software is nearly three years outdated and its age is starting to show.

     

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